Category Archives: Life lessons

Predict your way to tolerance

We all have triggers – those people or situations that constantly spark feelings of frustration or anger. We can avoid some of our triggers, but if you’re easily frustrated by other drivers, your sister, or a colleague, avoidance is difficult … Continue reading

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“I’m not racist” is no excuse for making racist comments

Everybody makes mistakes and we should be forgiven for making mistakes, especially when heartfelt apologies are made. One of the lessons that needs to be learned from the racist comments made against Adam Goodes in the past week is that … Continue reading

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What’s the rush?

It’s NAPLAN time again. That time of year when Australian school children are tested to see how they are performing relative to their peers. There are clear signs that this year, the pressure seems to be even greater than ever. … Continue reading

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When friends become family

Is blood thicker than water? Most people dream of being part of a close family. The idea of having a sister or brother who is more like a best friend sounds perfect. Family members who live close to one another … Continue reading

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Why we can’t give up trying to change the fashion industry

It’s Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week Australia and once again the argument is raised – Are the models too thin? Members of the fashion industry are quoted as saying that many of the models are naturally thin or athletic. Some designers are … Continue reading

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The agony of limbo

We don’t cope very well with being in limbo. Waiting to find out whether we have secured the position or won the award can be difficult. Learning that your partner is deciding whether they are going or staying is agony. … Continue reading

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Calling all cool kids

Friday 15 March 2013 is the National Day of Action against Bullying and Violence. It’s an obvious opportunity to raise awareness of the bullying that continues to take place in schools and workplaces. Most schools have a zero tolerance policy … Continue reading

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I would never do that …..

How often do you hear yourself thinking: I would never do that …? Many people use this line of thinking as their barometer – their way of measuring whether something is acceptable or not. Over the last 24 hours, Chrissie … Continue reading

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When thinking too much keeps you stuck

If you believe everything you read, you’d be forgiven for thinking that the key to positive change is helpful thinking. But the truth is, most of us tend to rely too much on our thoughts to keep motivated, to escape … Continue reading

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“Everything happens for a reason” and other unhelpful sayings

When someone is struggling, their friends gather round offering their loving support. But sometimes this support comes with a list of well meaning but unhelpful sayings that can leave the sufferer feeling irritated, confused, or in the worst case scenario … Continue reading

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